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One reader’s experience settling $125,000 for $25,000.

Sunday, November 15th, 2009

Dear Kenny,

Thank you for your book! It was a huge turning point for me. It gave me clear direction when I really needed it, when I was lost in a thick dark jungle of credit card debt.

I had heard, mostly on the radio, that credit cards could be settled for far less than I owed, but just how? When I called some of those companies that advertised on the radio, they wanted huge fees and were talking about “consolidating” and having me make payments for at least 5 years — some even wanted me to deposit money with them! It was as if they wanted to be in control and I did not trust them. I also scoured the internet where I got plenty ‘bits and peices’ which seemed to tell only part of the story, but I couldn’t find any organized information.

What I needed was a comprehensive plan which would guide me, a plan coming from a source that didn’t want huge fees and commissions.
Then, thank God, I found your book. Just as the title says, I could do it myself! You were articulate and caring enough to put your experiences in writing, telling your story with all the twists and turns and the pitfallls and victories.

Thanks to your book, I didn’t have to go through the “Scary Forrest” all by myself because you had already been through it. You shared with me what you had been through, and it was not that bad. You guided me with critical intelligence and told me what to expect and to look out for, briefing me on so many of the “bluffs”, “rehearsed lines” and other tactics that the debt collectors use to intimidate. As a result, I was confident and unntimidated when going through the entire process, all the way to settlement.

I am happy to tell you that I just settled $125,000 of credit card debt for about 20% of my balance — yes, that’s 20 cents on the dollar!

Thanks for sharing Kenny.

Harold W. , Los Angeles. CA

I just settled another credit card, for 22%

Wednesday, November 4th, 2009

I SETTLED ANOTHER CREDIT CARD ACCOUNT

Read-on to hear how I did it and learn some new
techniques that may help you in your own settlement negotiations

If you’ve ever put your email address into a website, you have probably noticed that you get follow-up emails every day continuing to pitch you products and services.

Conversely, you don’t hear from me very often. My last set of emails was in July and August to tell you about “The Do-It-Yourself Bailout” Seminar in Los Angeles.

The reason I write to you so infrequently is that I like to have something new to say. Today, I am writing to tell you that I SETTLED ANOTHER CREDIT CARD ACCOUNT.

In “The Do-It-Yourself Bailout” I tell the story of how I settled five of my seven credit card accounts. At the time of writing, I still had two open accounts, “Yellow Bank” with a $17,500 balance and “White Bank” with a $12,500 balance. With added interest during the months I was not making payments, the balances increased to $22,500 and $15,000 respectively.

Last Friday, I settled the Yellow Bank account for only 22%. That’s right, 22%!

If you’re still working on settling your own credit card accounts, read on because there is new information here based on experiences I’ve had since writing the book. Much of this new information will be expanded in a second printing of the book, but as a reader of “The Do-It-Yourself Bailout” I’m sharing it with you first.

For many months, Yellow bank was offering to settle for 40%, or about $8000 when the balance of the account was around $20,000. I didn’t have $8000 and was offering $5000, which they consistently refused with the patent answer, “we have never gone that low and never will.” At the time, a $5000 settlement would have been 25% of the current balance.

After about six months the account went into charge-off and I began speaking with a collection agent working on behalf of the bank. The balance had increased to its current level and 40% was now $9000. I still offered the $5000 and they still refused.

Over the next few weeks, the collection agent called three or four times a week. Sometimes I would speak to him. Others I would not. In all, the conversations were the same. They offered 40%. I offered $5000.

Just last Thursday, as I was out looking for a Halloween costume, I had something very new happen. Usually, whenever a collection agent would call me and leave a message, the message would never contain details. They would leave their name, company and phone number and ask me to return the call. That was it. This time, he actually left a message saying he had “good news.” It occurred to me that it might just be a ploy to get me to return his call. In the end, I figured if it was a ploy, we’d just have the same conversation and leave it at that. I might as well see if he really did have good news.

I phoned back and, sure enough, he said he got approval from the bank to accept my $5000 offer. A 22% settlement.

Of course, you know what I asked for next. A settlement agreement in writing. It was already Thursday afternoon, October 29, and he said the one condition of this settlement was that I had to make the payment during October so it could go on the bank’s books for the month.

I said that if they could get me the letter that day, I could overnight a certified check. Or, if they got me the letter the next day (Friday, October 30), I could do a wire transfer.

The letter came in at 8:15 a.m. on Friday morning, but there was a catch. They said they needed the payment by 11 a.m. Central Standard Time, which is 9 a.m. Pacific Standard Time where I am. I said it would be impossible. I couldn’t do a wire transfer until my bank opened at 9 a.m., which would be past their deadline. They suggested doing a check-by-phone. I had never done a check-by-phone before and, frankly, I didn’t feel comfortable giving a collection agent my primary bank account number with nothing more than a phone authorization to make a withdrawal. I wanted to move the $5000 into a temporary account, and I had to go into my bank to do it.

They then launched into the “sell” again. This offer is only good today. On Monday it will be 40% again. Etc. etc.

There was a lot of pressure here and I knew they were trying to get me emotionally off balance so I would make the check-by-phone payment right then and they would get their money while I was still on the phone and not give me the chance to back out.

I wasn’t having it. I said, “what if I wanted to send this settlement agreement to my attorney to look over before making payment? He doesn’t get into his office until after 9 a.m. Would you tell me that I had to send in a payment on a business deal without the benefit of having my attorney look over the documents? I’m sorry,” I said. “I’m ready, willing and able to make this payment, but I do not like receiving a letter at 8:15 a.m. and hearing that I must make a payment inside of 45 minutes before the start of business, when my bank isn’t open, my attorney isn’t available, and that if I don’t comply the deal is dead. It’s a red flag for me and I’m not going to fall to the pressure.”

So they did! The collection agent put a manager on the phone who said, “let me call the bank and see if I can extend the deadline.” And guess what? I got two extra hours, which allowed me to go to my bank, move the money between accounts, satisfy my concerns about a check-by-phone payment, and close the deal on my terms without fear or anxiety.

Now I can say that I have reduced my credit card debt from $212,000 to $15,000 and saved almost $133,000!

I hope “The Do-It-Yourself Bailout” has been working for you, both in your actual settlement negotiations, and in releasing yourself from the pain, fear and stress of debt.

Can you settle your credit cards when you don’t have any money?

Tuesday, May 19th, 2009

Many readers of “The Do-It-Yourself Bailout” are concerned that they cannot settle their credit cards for less than they owe if they do not have the money up front to make the settlement payment. For people in financial difficulty, coming up with a flat payment may seem difficult, even impossible. However, there are many factors to consider that could put you in a position to settle your credit cards even if you think you can’t afford it.

When settling an account for less than the amount owed, you do have to make the settlement payment. So, for instance, if you’ve got a $10,000 balance and settle for $3500, you need to pay the $3500 up front to settle the entire account in full.

Many people stop right there with debt settlement because they think they can’t afford it. But let’s do the math. If you’re paying 29% on that $10,000, that’s $2900 a year, about $250 a month. Let’s say you stop paying your cards and it takes 10 months to reach a settlement of $3500. If you were to set aside the $250 a month that you would have been paying in interest on your card, you’ll have $2500 of the $3500. Which means you only have to save an extra $100 a month, about $3 a day (make coffee at home in the morning instead of going to Starbucks), and you’ll have the $3500 to settle out the entire $10,000.

If you’d paid the $250 a month, you’d have given the bank $2500 and still owe nearly the full $10,000. By settling, the entire balance is gone and you won’t be paying that $2900 year after year, either.

And even then, many banks will accept a payment plan for the settlement. In all likelihood, it’ll be a much more accelerated payment than what your regular minimum payment would be, perhaps over 3-4 months. But here’s the trick, you’ll have to make every payment, no skipping now. If you make two then miss one, the settlement agreement will void.

Like always, be sure to get every settlement agreement IN WRITING before sending in any payments. I give copies of all my settlement agreements in the book for you to review the language, but definitely consult an attorney to make sure that your agreements cover all the needed language to protect you.

Do you need a bankruptcy attorney?

Monday, April 13th, 2009

Today I had a reader ask me if she needed to hire a bankruptcy attorney to pursue negotiated settlements on her credit card debt. I thought it might be helpful for me to post the answer for everyone.

A bankruptcy attorney is not required to call your creditors and discuss a negotiated settlement, however, every person’s financial picture is different and debt settlement is just one option among many. I found that the attorney, if only for a one hour consultation, was very helpful in taking me through all of my options so that I could make the best choice for me. Also, in the settlement process itself, though I did most of the negotiating, I found it helpful to be able to say on the phone that I had a bankruptcy attorney, it seemed to make them take me more seriously, and I did like having someone to look over my settlement agreements since I had never done that before. While The Do-It-Yourself Bailout does give a very detailed picture of what the settlement process looked like from my perspective, I still say there is no substitute for professional advice. Many bankruptcy attorney will consult with you for an hour or two at a very reasonable fee.

Holding on to your Identity

Sunday, April 12th, 2009

In my speaking engagements lately, I’ve been talking to people about how to separate emotion from their finances entirely, and especially how to let go of the negative emotions – shame, fear, anxiety, blame and stress – that often come with debt.

To let go of all emotion tied to money, I recommend looking at how we as people, or any individual, is attaching identity to their finance. We all know what this looks like. The notion that having a lot of money, making a lot of money, driving a nice car, wearing nice clothes, etc., somehow – in our own perception and (we hope) other’s perception – we are a “better” person because of our financial success.

Conversely, so many people believe that financial downturns (we even call them “failures”) make us “lesser” people if we have identity attached to our finances. How many people really internalize an emotional feeling of being “good” in association with a high credit score, and fear that we are “bad” if we have a low credit score?

What all this means is that a financial downturn, as so many people around the world are experiencing right now, doesn’t only mean the actual facts of less money, but also attacks our identity making us feel “lesser,” which in turn causes the pain, fear, stress and anxiety.

What most people are really looking for when they want to find a way out of their financial troubles is a way out of the pain and fear than comes with their financial troubles.

The power to do away with the negative emotions lies within each one of us as a core, personal power that has nothing to do with the income our outflow of money.

It has to do with letting go of the identity that we associate with money. If one can recognize that having more money or making more money (while great) doesn’t make you a “better” person, then conversely having or making less money doesn’t make you a “lessor” person.

With that realization, it is easy to let go of the shame debt, because there is no shame, the debt has nothing to do with your identity. It becomes easier to share our financial situation with those who could help us, spouses, family, friends, professionals, because we do not fear that we will “look bad” in their eyes for having financial concerns, because the financial concerns don’t say anything real about us as people.

I like to say that “you are not your money, and your money is not you.” Money comes and goes, like everything, the wave patterns of the universe, but if your core beliefs – especially about yourself – are not tied to the wave patterns of your income, then up or down, there is no identity crises.

What’s going on with my mortgage.

Friday, April 3rd, 2009

Like many of you, I’ve had to make some difficult choices in the past months about where to put my financial resources. Last year, I was staying current on my mortgage while negotiating settlements on my credit cards, and looking for work to start bringing in income and turn the whole picture around.

As you all know, I was successful in greatly reducing my credit card debt, but finding the income to maintain my mortgage has been more difficult. After the November Presidential election and hearing so much in the news about plans the new Administration is putting through to help home owners, I decided to see what help I could get on my mortgage.

Several months ago, while still current on my mortgage, I called my lender to tell them that I was foreseeing difficulty and ask for help. In not so many words I was told that there was no help available for me while I was current on my mortgage (just like the credit card lenders).

So I stopped paying my mortgage around November ‘08 and the phone calls began. They asked why I missed the payment. I told them that I had been keeping it current while dealing with my credit cards but that my financial troubles had continued and now it was difficult to make the mortgage payments. In addition, I own a duplex, my tenants had moved out and I hadn’t been able to rent the unit again. I told them that I had asked a month ago for help and received the indication that help might be available if I was behind on my payments.

Sure enough, now that I was behind on my payments I qualified for their “homeowners assistance plan,” which at this stage consisted of me answering questions about my income and expenses over the phone. They wanted to know all of my income and expenses to get an idea of what I could afford on my mortgage.

That was early December, ‘08. About a month later I called for an update and was told that I was declined a modification on my loan because my income and expenses left me with only $17 a month extra and they felt that I was too close to not being able to pay any mortgage, even with a reduction. This made little sense to me. With no extra income, a reduction seemed like just what I needed, but they disagreed.

At that time they told me that a Notice of Default was going out to me and I could be foreclosed on at anytime and they recommended I make the payments of the past few months to bring my account current. Of course, by this time I was about $12,000 behind and didn’t have it so I asked what I could do. They said I could re-apply for the modification if my financial situation changed.

About a six weeks later, the CBS News piece came out on “The Do-It-Yourself Bailout” and I sold a few books, so I called my lender to tell them I had a little extra income and they had me go through the financial questions again.

Just this week, I received a letter in the mail saying I had been approved for a loan modification. This is six months after I stopped paying my mortgage. I never received the Notice of Default, by the way. Basically, the “offer” was to tack on the past due payments to the principal and reduce my Adjustable Rate Mortgage from it’s current 4 point something percent interest to 2% for five years, and at the end of five years it would balloon again to Prime plus an index rate of something like 3.5%.

That made no sense to me. Most experts and pundits agree that a big portion of the financial trouble the world is in right now is due to balloon mortgages that all jumped at once and people couldn’t make the payments. I know that in my case, when I bought my house on an ARM the rate was around 4%, and over the next two years the Fed raised interest rates 25 basis points every month and my mortgage went up about $100 a month until I was paying nearly twice monthly in interest than when I bought the house (a big reason that my savings dwindled and financed turned down when tacked onto all the credit card interest I was paying).

So at this time, I called my lender. It took me nearly an hour and seven transfers to different departments before I got someone on the phone who said he was actually in the loan modification department that handled my loan and could discuss the modification offer. I said that I was pleased to see that they would reduce my interest rate to 2%, but rather than have it be a balloon loan, I’d like the 2% to be fixed. I also asked that they knock off my loan the additional interest that had been added on during the months I was making my minimum (less than interest only) payment on my ARM, and take me back to my original loan amount. Not even current market value, mind you, just my original loan amount.

He said that in five years, when the 2% rate expired, if I was current, they would at that time get me into a fixed loan at current interest rates and do a “short refi” to bring the loan value to the current market rate. All I could gather from this was that the bank is hoping that in five years my home value will go up again and they’d rather wait to adjust my loan until then, than to adjust it to current market rate now.

I said that the offer wouldn’t work for me. All it seemed to be doing was delaying my trouble with my loan, and I noted that if they were to make this kind of deal with all of their homeowners in need, that in five years the economy would be right back where it is right now. If they wanted to really change the economy and the housing crises, they should lock in loans and current market levels now and offer reduced rate fixed loans to their customers on ARM’s now, then most of us would become homeowners who wouldn’t get into trouble again down the line.

They said that their offer was “non negotiable,” that their investors were not opening up a conversation about my loan, but offering a take it or leave it deal. I left it, with the opening that if they would like to discuss terms that worked for both sides, I’d be willing to.

More to come.

Great discussion

Wednesday, February 4th, 2009

I’ve been having a great conversation with two very smart men about the concept of debt settlement, the “rights” and “wrongs,” “legality” vs. “morality” from all angle.

See the whole thread at:

http://www.startupnation.com/pages/community/forum_posts.asp?TID=15054&TPN=1

Credit Card Settlements – Top 5 Pointers

Thursday, January 29th, 2009

Negotiating settlements on credit card debt is one of the fastest ways to reduced large portions of your credit card debt permanently. Although there are many companies advertising on radio and television to work for you in settling your credit card debt, it is possible to do it yourself without paying additional fees or a percentage of the amount you save to a third party. Here are five major points to keep in mind when settling your credit card debt.

1. It will be necessary to stop making payments on your credit cards. Generally, it seems that most banks, credit card issuers and other lending institutions are not interested in negotiating settlements with customers who are current on their payments. In my experience, most people who could save many thousands of dollars through debt settlement will not do so because they do not want to miss payments for two reasons.

First, they are worried about their credit score. The fear of hurting our credit score is quite common. Though I do not suggest that you should toss all concern for your credit score to the wind, I do suggest that you include consideration of your credit score as one point in a larger context of your overall finances. Your credit score is a tool that lenders use to determine the risk in lending to you. In many cases, having a lower credit score does not mean that you cannot get credit, only that the credit will come at higher interest. If the amount you can save through debt settlement greatly exceeds the amount you will pay through higher interest on a future loan, than the benefit of settlement outweighs the drop in credit score.

Second, they fell somehow “wrong” in missing a credit card payment. This is because we, as individuals, are taught to attach a great deal of emotion to our finances general and negative emotion to debt and the inability to pay off debt. By separating all emotionality from debt, you will be more successful in your settlement negotiations, which brings us to point number 2.
2. Treat debt settlement like a business negotiation, because it is. There is nothing wrong with you for being in debt. You are not a failure or a bad person. Our world runs on debt, every dollar in your pocket represents debt (the U.S. government owes the Federal Reserve $1 for borrowing that note). You are encouraged to borrow for school, cars, clothes, gasoline, homes and business. And in today’s economy, many of us are turning to credit to meet the shortfall between our income and our monthly expenses. This is the world we live in and the businesses that have chosen to lend money understand that life happens and some of their loans will not be repaid in full. The work those numbers into their business model they same way retailers know that November and December will be big and January will have a lot of returns. So when a collection’s agent tries to intimidate you buy calling into question your integrity because you are asking to settle the debt for less than is owed, remind yourself that this is a business deal and in business everyone is trying to negotiate the very best position for themselves or their company. You are the C.E.O of your own corporation, the corporation of You, and You have the right to reach the best financial terms for the health of your company as any other C.E.O. of any other business. One of the primary functions of every corporate C.E.O is keeping an eye on the company’s debt balances and negotiating out of debts, writing off debts, or selling debts in order to raise capital. You read about it every day in the Wall St. Journal. And they never take it personally or tell themselves they are bad people for doing it. If you’re going to play the same game, put yourself on the same playing field.

3. Be patient. In my experience, it takes three to four months from the time you stop making your payments before the banks or credit card companies will begin making settlement offers and their first offers will be very high. My own first offers ranged from 85% of the total debt to 92% of the total debt. One company offered to settle for my entire balance less the interest that had accrued from the time I stopped paying (no savings there). Usually, around the six month mark the bank will be getting ready to send the debt to a collection agency who will pay them far less for it, sometimes as little as 5%. Before that happens, they’ll be motivated to settle with you for more than they’ll get from collections. Generally, I hear about settlements in the 30-35% range as common after six to eight months of negotiating. I’ve heard as low as 15% but rarely. One of the biggest drawbacks to using a service agency to negotiate your debt (even one of the honest few) is that they don’t have the same stamina as you. They are either working for a fee and what to put in as few hours as possible to up their hourly rate on that fee, or they are working on a commission and want to book it as quickly as possible. So when the first offers start coming in at 50-60%, they may tell you to take it because they book their fee and move onto the next client. You, on the other hand, will have the patience to wait two, three, four more months for a settlement in the 35%, maybe even 20% range because it means a greater savings to you.

4. Get your settlement agreements in writing. I cannot stress this enough. I had one bank offer me a settlement, which I accepted, then tell me to send them the money and afterward they would send me a statement saying the account was settled in full. I asked, “Would you pay for a house and then look at the loan agreement?” Of course not. I had another bank settle with me then send the balance (the amount written off) to a collection agency to try to collect on it. If I hadn’t had had a settlement agreement in writing I might have been stuck with that debt but with the agreement it went away.

5. Live your life. Too often we allow serious debt and the stress associated with it to define our lives, our relationships, our moods and our actions. Along with giving up the emotion attached to debt, give up the sense that you have to stop enjoying life just because you are having financial troubles. Smile, walk in the park, go to a movie, eat ice cream, love you spouse, laugh with your children. You have the debt, live with it, don’t let it live you.

The Finance Charge and Annual Percentage Rate

Wednesday, January 21st, 2009

Kenny Golde is the author of “The Do-It-Yourself Bailout: How I Reduced My Credit Card Debt from $212,000 to $30,000 in Six Months and Saved Over $100,000.”

http://www.SettleYourCreditCards.com

Even wondered what the difference was between the Finance Charge and The Annual Percentage Rate (APR) as stated on your credit card statement?

The following is from the Federal Reserve website (http://www.federalreserve.gov/pubs/consumerhdbk/cost.htm#apr), a good explanation of the difference.

The Finance Charge and Annual Percentage Rate

Credit costs vary. By remembering two terms–the finance charge and the annual percentage rate (APR)–you can compare credit prices from different sources. Under Truth in Lending, the creditor must tell you–in writing and before you sign any agreement–what these terms will be.

The finance charge is the total dollar amount you pay to use credit. It includes interest costs and other costs, such as service charges and some credit-related insurance premiums.

Example:
Suppose you borrow $100 for one year, and the interest is $10. If there is a service charge of $1, the finance charge will be $11.

The annual percentage rate is the percentage cost (or relative cost) of credit on a yearly basis, which is your key to comparing costs, regardless of the amount of credit or how long you have to repay it.

Example:
Again, suppose you borrow $100 for one year and pay a finance charge of $10. If you can keep the entire $100 for the whole year and then repay $110 at year’s end, you are paying an APR of 10 percent. But if you repay the $100 and finance charge (a total of $110) in twelve equal monthly installments, you don’t really get to use $100 for the whole year. In fact, you get to use less and less of that $100 each month. In this case, the $10 finance charge amounts to an APR of 18 percent.

All creditors–banks, stores, car dealers, credit card companies, finance companies–must state the cost of their credit in terms of the finance charge and the APR. Federal law does not set interest rates or other credit charges. But it does require their disclosure so that you can compare credit costs. The law says these two pieces of information must be shown to you before you use a credit card.

Be wary as a credit consumer. Don’t only shop for rates but read the fine print, make sure you know how long those introductory rates last, and under what conditions they can terminate. You could even try calling a bank or credit card company when you are applying and ask for better terms than the offer you received in the mail contains. It’s all business and everything is negotiable.

Credit Scores. What’s the big deal?

Tuesday, January 20th, 2009

As long as the question has been asked, let’s talk about credit scores for a minute.  I say, “What’s the big deal?”  We are taught to revere our credit scores.  Hurting a credit score is the unstated, endgame of many financial decisions when the decision maker doesn’t even realize it.  For instance, someone says, “I can’t afford that house.” What does that really mean? It means if he or she buys the house and finds, down the road, they there isn’t enough income to comfortably cover the mortgage, that they may have to sell at a loss, OR WORSE, take a short sale or a foreclosure… and here’s the unstated endgame: which will hurt my credit score.

But so what? What is a credit score? It is a vague, logarithmic calculation that assesses risk for lenders. A low credit score, which would mean the borrower is high risk, doesn’t mean the lender won’t lend to them, only that the loan will come with more points and higher interest so that the lender can make more profit sooner in case the borrower defaults.  Yes, in the current financial crisis, a lower credit score may make it harder to get a loan, but there are people with high credit scores who can’t get loans right now.

Let’s do the math on what a low credit score might cost.  Say you are buying a $25,000 car, $5,000 down and $20,000 financed.  If you have a “good” credit score, you might get a 5% loan. Over 60 months, the total interest paid will be $2645.  With a median credit score you might get a 6% loan which would amount to $3199.  A bad score with a 7% loan, $3761.  The difference between the high score and the low score is $1100 in interest over 60 months, about $18 a month.

What about with a house.  Say you want to buy a $500,000 home with 20% down (sorry, the 0-10% down days are over for awhile).  So you’re financing $400,000 for 30 years.  At 5% you’ll pay $373,000 in interest. (I know, brutal, right? Most people when they buy a home never really consider what that home will actually cost buy the time they are done paying it off, but that’s another blog).  A 7% interest, you’ll pay $558,000 in interest. A difference of $513 a month for 360 months.  And that’s not considering the very likely possibility that over time interest rates in general will come down and you’ll be able to refinance anyway.

The point is, IT’S NOT THAT BIG OF A DIFFERENCE.  $18 a month on a $25,000 car.  $513 a month on a $500,000 home.  Yeah, sure, is $500 a month and that’s not meaningless, but it’s not the “oh my gosh I might hurt my credit score what am I going to do?” doomsday heart palpitations that so many people have when they even consider the notion of their credit score being under 700, or under 600.

When I had an 800 credit score I was able to get over $200,000 in credit to pursue a business venture.  When the business venture didn’t work out as planned and I couldn’t meet my monthly interest payments on my cards, I began to negotiate settlements.  In about six months I reduced by credit card debt from $212,000 to $30,000 and I had $115,000 in debt written off. 

$115,000! I can’t buy enough new cars in my lifetime at 2 or 3% higher because my credit score fell 150-200 points to save enough in interest that it would add up to more than I saved by settling my debt.  Had I been the homebuyer in the example above, I would have paid $185,000 more in interest over 30 years, compared to saving $115,000 in six months.

I’m not suggesting that anyone abandon their credit score to the wind and adopt unsound financial habits. I am suggesting that in the conversations you have with your attorney, accountant, spouse and self, give credit score considerations their proper due. They are a single part of a large financial equation, not the end all absolute factor that your lenders would have you believe they are.

If you find that you have to miss a mortgage payment or two because you’re between jobs or had unexpected medical expenses or your son or daughter in college has a once-in-a-lifetime chance to meet President Obama but has to fly first class and stay at the Hay-Adams, then factor a drop in your credit score into a financial equation about when you might need to borrow money again and how much an extra percentage point will cost you.  Don’t tell your kid to stay in the dorms that weekend to save $18 a month on a new car.